12 Iconic LGBTQ+ Moments in History to Teach Your Children (Plus, Further Resources!)

February is LGBT+ History Month and I am always excited when I get the opportunity to about our community’s history. Despite popular belief, the LGBTQ+ community is actually steeped in rich history and iconic moments in time.

Dating back centuries, LGBTQ+ people have been widely documented in places such as Ancient Greece and East Asia, as well as within pre-colonisation indigenous communities where some people from within those communities adopted the umbrella term ‘two-spirit’ for those who fulfil a traditional third-gender (or other gender-variant) ceremonial and social role in their cultures.

In the UK, records show Kings during the 17th century had a variety of ‘male lovers’ and trans* people were even documented as early as the 1800s. But, with mainstream media continually focusing on the HIV/AIDS crisis in the ’80s and Section 28 as our pivotal moments, it’s difficult to focus on our more defining moments such as the formation of Stonewall in 1989 or, more recently in 2022, pardons for those ‘convicted of crimes related to consensual homosexual activityled by Michael Cashman.

LGBTQ+ education

Schools are slowly catching up when it comes to LGBTQ+ education, however we probably still have a long way to go before we see our son being taught about the Stonewall Riots or the fact that his parents only achieved Equal Marriage Rights less than 10 years ago in 2014!

With this, I’ve chosen some of our favourite LGBTQ+ moments in history, highlighting LGBTQ+ trailblazers, activists and everyone in between. Feel free to add some of yours in the comments! If you’re interested in further reading, I’ve left some resources at the end of this post!

1969: First British gay activist groups formed in England, Wales & Scotland

The Campaign for Homosexual Equality (CHE) was the first gay activist group within England and Wales and campaigned for legal and social equality for lesbians, gay men and bisexuals in England and Wales.

Outright Scotland (previously known as the Scottish Minorities Group) followed the same year and was a self-help organisation working for the rights of homosexual men and women, and had the aims of providing counselling, working for law reform and providing meeting places for lesbians and gay men.

[Source: The Bristol Mag]

1972: First ‘Official’ Gay Pride Rally in the UK

1970 saw the first gay marches across London, but it was in 1972 when the ‘official’ Pride march took place in Central London. Chosen to take place on the nearest Saturday to the anniversary of the Stonewall riots of 1969, the marches and protests started out with near to 2,000 attendees and acted as a way to promote LGBTQ+ rights and equality.

Nowadays, London Pride sees some 1.5 million people enter the city of London to join in with the event, with other Prides also taking place in Brighton and Manchester throughout the year. Other countries – where LGBTQ+ citizens have fewer rights than here in the UK – have even followed suit more recently and have been successful in forming their own Pride movements.

1984: First openly gay politician in the UK Parliament

My name is Chris Smith. I’m the Labour MP for Islington South and Finsbury, and I’m gay… were the words uttered by Chris Smith during a rally in Rugby, Warwickshire as part of a speech that was in protest against a possible ban on gay employees by the town council. The unscripted addition was added last minute, but awarded Smith a standing ovation.

In 2005, Smith also became the first MP to publicly acknowledge that he is HIV positive.

The argument over the age of consent for gay men had been debated since the 1970s. That is, until the European Commission of Human Rights found in 1997 that the European Convention on Human Rights were violated by a discriminatory age of consent. The government, therefore, submitted that it would propose a Bill to Parliament for a reduction of the age of consent for homosexual acts from 18 to 16 (something that was never set for lesbians!). This eventually lead to the Act coming into force in 2001.

Under the Act, consensual group sex for gay men was also decriminalised.

2000: LGBTQ+ people allowed to serve openly in Her Majesty’s Armed Forces

On 12th January, a new general code of sexual conduct was introduced following a two year court battle initiated by Jeanette Smith (Royal Air Force) and Duncan Lustig Prean (a Royal Navy Commander). Both had been dismissed from their retrospective forces due to their identity.

[Source: Sky News]

By 2005, the largest of the three services (Royal Navy, British Army and the Royal Air Force) had joined Stonewall’s Diversity Programme. Whilst this is a positive move, with the British Military service working to actively recruit LGBTQ+ people, discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation has only been forbidden since 2010!

2006: The Equality Act 2006

Across 2006 and 2007, one of the biggest milestones for marginalised communities came into play: The Equality Act 2006. The 2006 Act soon became a precursor to the 2010 version, but at the time the 2006 version still included protection for the following protected characteristics: age; disability; gender; proposed, commenced or completed gender reassignment; race; religion or belief; and sexual orientation.

A year later in 2007, a secondary piece of legislation called the Equality Act (Sexual Orientation) Regulations became law in April, outlawing discrimination in the provision of goods, facilities, services, education and public functions facilities, services, education and public functions based on sexual orientation (this part later became Section 1 of The Equality Act 2010).

2017: First LGBTQ+ movie to win ‘Best Picture’ at the Oscars

Whilst there was a mix-up during the ceremony, whereby La La Land was initially announced as the winner, the film Moonlight was eventually crowned as the official winner. The film, which details three defining chapters within the life of Chiron (a young Black man growing up in Miami), would be the first LGBTQ+ centred film to win in this category.

If you’d like to find more LGBTQ+ films, check out our LGBTQ+ film a day post.

[Source: Medium.com]

2018: First mainstream ‘Teen Flick’ to feature a gay lead character

Based on the novel Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda by Becky Albertalli, Love, Simon is a romantic comedy drama centred around Simon Spier, a closeted gay high school boy who is forced to balance his friends, his family, and the blackmailer threatening to out him to the entire school, while simultaneously attempting to discover the identity of the anonymous classmate with whom he has fallen in love online.

2019: PSHE (Personal, Social, Health and Economic) Education and RSE (Relationships and Sex Education) made mandatory in England

Although only fully taking effect in 2020, in 2019 the House of Lords approved the requirement to acknowledge English laws concerning LGBTQ+ rights, as well as the protection of the “physical and mental well-being” of LGBTQ+ children, within primary and secondary schools within England.

This was a huge move towards more inclusive education and is now quite the opposite to what LGBTQ+ education looked like in the late ’80s / early ’90s.

2021 (2020): First transgender athlete to compete in Olympics

In 2021, within the Tokyo 2020 Olympics, New Zealand’s Laurel Hubbard became the first ever transgender athlete chosen to compete at the event. The 43-year-old became eligible when the International Olympic Committee (IOC) changed its rules in 2015 allowing transgender athletes to compete as a woman if their testosterone levels are below a certain threshold. Unfortunately, Hubbard had to pull out of the event due to an injury, however the New Zealand team maintained their inclusive stance, stating: We have a strong culture of ‘manaaki’ (respect) and inclusion and respect for all.

[Source: The Guardian]

2021: Military pardons for all gay sex criminal records within the UK military

A year ago in 2021, the Ministry of Defence introduced the Armed Forces Bill 2021 that automatically pardoned all criminal records relating to gay sex within the UK military. In addition, it was also announced that military personnel dismissed on grounds of homosexuality would also be eligible to have their service medals restored if they had been taken away following their ‘crimes’.

2021: Blood donation rules for gay and bisexual men relaxed across the UK

Under previous rules, all men who had sex with men had to abstain from sex for three months in order to donate. The new criteria, which was implemented summer 2021, focused on individual behaviours. This means that men who have sex with men in a long-term relationship will now be able to donate blood at any time.

In a landmark decision, it means that blood donors who have had one sexual partner and who have been with their sexual partner for more than three months, will be eligible to donate regardless of their gender, their partner’s gender, or the type of sex they have.

[Source: Blood.co.uk]

Further reading…

The above are just a few unique moments from our history – but there’s plenty more!

If you would like to read more about the historic events mentioned above, or take part in some further reading, here are a few of our favourite books to get you started:

Please note: These are Amazon affiliate links, which means I’ll earn a few pennies for each purchase made through them. However, if you can, please shop locally or via an independent seller.


Feature image credit: Ian Taylor / Unsplash

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