It’s not an exaggeration when I say that I could probably count on one hand the amount of times I have seen an LGBTQ+ person or family feature in a brand campaign. I’m not talking about your big adverts like Gillette or IKEA (although they’re still very welcome!) or famous LGBTQ+ celebrities, I’m talking about families like mine – people like me – in local campaigns.
We’re simply too divisive or not as ‘popular’ because we’re a bit niche. But the thing is, it’s because we’re a bit niche that we’re actually incredibly valuable. We’re a peek into what society really looks like today and we’re your way into making yourself more diverse and inclusive to all communities.
With this in mind, over the past few years, I’ve spent a lot of time increasing the visibility of families like mine and, in general, people like me. Online and in the media. I’ve challenged brands that aren’t up to scratch – both publicly and via email – and I’ve had really productive conversations with those in control of connecting influencers and bloggers with brands, asking why members of the LGBTQ+ community aren’t being put forward or represented.
No more excuses
A lot of the time it falls down to stats, or what image or style the brand is looking for, which is fair enough. Occasionally, however, I’ve received responses saying that the brand “couldn’t find any anyone” that met the diversity bracket so they went ahead with their straight, White, middle class group of people instead (I may be paraphrasing). One of the worst responses I received was “We’re featuring diversity soon…” as if LGBTQ+ blogs are a separate entity or season!
Understandably, this infuriated me, as families like mine are no longer a rare species and we deserve to be included amongst everyone else – not separately. It is actually incredibly easy to find LGBTQ+ families these days, just look up hashtags like #LGBTFamilies, #TwoMums, #TwoDads, #SameSexFamilies, and you will find a stream of beautiful families. Not only that, but social media accounts like Same-Sex Parents and Gays With Kids over on Instagram share daily photos of LGBTQ+ families from across the globe. We’re everywhere, but looking at today’s media you really wouldn’t think it, and then you come to blogging and the ‘influencer’ market and it’s even worse.
It’s “…almost criminal that families like mine are not represented”
If you were to search ‘Top UK Bloggers’ on Google, I would bet my last pound coin that the list would be predominantly cisgender, heterosexual and White – actually, I know it is – without even having to search ‘White’ and ‘Straight’, because that’s just the way it is.
To find a family like mine you still have to be very specific in your Google search terms. Take a visit to a popular blogging chart instead and, again, there is so little diversity in the ‘Top 10’ that I wonder why I bother sticking around on their mailing lists. It’s almost criminal that families like mine are not represented in ‘Parenting’ categories (outside of Pride Month, that is) let alone ‘Travel’ and ‘Photography’.
It just feels like we’re hidden until we’re popular or profitable, but then no one wants to be accused of tokenism, so we’re quite often hidden until Pride Month is WELL underway so it doesn’t look like tokenism. Hilarious isn’t it? For us, not really.
In a world where we’re making great strides forward – and this time I am thinking of the Gillettes of the world – we still have so far to go before LGBTQ+ families are found in the ‘Parenting’ category and not part of a specialist category, or LGBTQ+ blogs are nominated for awards amongst ‘mainstream’ bloggers.
Inspired by Tinuke Bernard, who wrote their list of UK Black Bloggers, and in an effort to raise our profile (quashing the excuses of “We couldn’t find any LGBTQ+ blogs”) I’ve collected the ultimate list of LGBTQ+ bloggers, influencers and content creators out there right now. They’re doing wonderful things, from stunning photography to cooking incredible food.
Now there’s no excuse
Each of these mentions is an active link to an Instagram page or blog, so get following and diversify your feed!
Quick links…
Parenting and family
- Two Dads UK
- The Legacy of Leo
- Our Big Gay Journey
- Laura Side Street
- Two Dads Up North
- Daddies in the North East
- Queer Little Family
- The Atwal-Brice Family
- The Faded Seaside Mama
- Daddy & Dad
- The Lincoln-Shaws
- Our Transitional Life
- The Unlikely Dad
- Daddies 2 George
- Yet Another Transgender Blog
- Ranae Von Meding
- Flump Has Two Mummies
- Two Dads in London
- Mum and Mama
- Kaiden Laverty (A Suffolk Dad)
- The Fox Family
EMBED: https://www.instagram.com/p/CTdCxlzMb5m/
EMBED: https://www.instagram.com/p/CYJ_wcLsm5R/
Fashion and lifestyle
- Holly Homan-Nagra
- Charlie Craggs
- Abbie Walsh-Greenfield
- Josh Rivers
- Daniel Webster
- Faye Kingston
- Tanya Compas
- Liv Little
- Tom and Alex (2GayNerds)
- Imogen Fox
- Munroe Bergdorf
- Lottie L’Amour
- Jessica Kellgren-Fozard
- Another World Belfast
- Mia Maxwell
- Rainbow Through the Storm
- Luisa-Christie
- Desmond Napoles
- The PAPA Artist
- Justin Myers (The Guy Liner)
- Nic Andii
- Travis Alabanza
- Jamie Windust
- Howey Ejegi
- Paula Akpan
EMBED: https://www.instagram.com/p/CT7qFnqlTDq/
EMBED: https://www.instagram.com/p/CYjr2ZmNgL9/
Food
- Fat Gay Vegan
- Beer for Breakfast
- Lunches and Leopard Print
- Gastro Gays
- Two Chubby Cubs
- What Ed Eats
- Vegans Eat Plenty
EMBED: https://www.instagram.com/p/COYvGlLnTMu/
EMBED: https://www.instagram.com/p/CY7K9E2KcWy/
Travel
- The Adventure Squad
- The Smith Story
- Two Guys and a Tortoise
- Our Taste for Life
- Jack Runs the World
- The Globetrotter Guys
- The Bananas on Toast
- We Are Wandering Travel
- Hand Luggage Only
- What Wegan Did Next
- Matthew & Ryan
- The Jenna Way
- A Gay Adventure
EMBED: https://www.instagram.com/p/CZj2t0jlHIJ/
EMBED: https://www.instagram.com/p/CVnHjVrKUcZ/
Photography
- Kim Elliot Interiors & Architecture Photographer
- Sean Santiago Photographer
- Ms Emsworth Nature Photographer
Interiors, DIY, and craft
- Ysolda Teague Arts & Crafts
- Scottage Doer Upper Interior Design & DIY
- Matthew Shaw Styling Interior Design
- A Life Less Orderly Interior Design & DIY
- The Home Boys DIY, Upcycling & Interior Styling
EMBED: https://www.instagram.com/p/CR1xFYMLzfH/
EMBED: https://www.instagram.com/p/CTeasGVqg3Z/
This LGBTQ+ blogs list is far from finished – I hope to add to it as time goes on…
If you have any suggestions (or corrections), pop us an email or leave a comment!
Feature image credit: Robin Worrall / Unsplash
12 comments
This makes me so bloody happy. So much queer creativity ready to burst forth into the world! You’re crusaders of the modern age and I adore you!
Love love love this. Thank you for including us 🙂
Such an awesome resource! I’m flabbergasted by the amount of blogs on here I hadn’t come across yet. I think I only follow about 6 of them. That’ll soon be rectified, you’ve provided something that will truly help so many people and hopefully take away the excuse I hear too often from brands and PRs that they simply can’t find diverse / minority bloggers to reach out to. They need to bookmark this pronto
Even though I’m straight, White and working class I follow lots of these. I chose them because I like their posts, now I’ve got lots more to have a look at. Great list.
Great list. More for me to follow and a great resource. Hopefully something people will use. I’m like you. I want to see us represented.
This was a good read! We liked the intro because for us, we are trying to break through the barrier that we can do more than just pride campaigns – LGBTQ+ people can and should be featured all year round in any campaign (not just LGBTQ+ related ones) 🙂
There’s a nice LGBTQ+ apparel skay_navarre on insta. They do giveaways.
This is such a great list! Any chance can you could update our link to TheSmithStory? Just checked and SarahplusLaura link goes to a dead page. Thanks for the inclusion and keep up the good work!
Oops! Apologies. I’ve changed this now
Thank you for this. Your blog massively inspired me to blog about our journey. Reading about other LGBTQ+ families helped me through some tough times and gave me excellent resources to show my 12-year-old who lives with homophobic step mum and father, that there are other LGBTQ+ families and we are not all going to burn in hell. Yes that’s really what her step mum has been telling her since the age of 5. I’ve had a huge battle to show her it’s OK to be gay and blogs like this have been so valuable in educating her.
Hopefully one day my blog will get as big as some of these and inspire others. For now I’m still finding my feet. But one day hope to make the list!
Thanks again for all your hard work.
X
I have a few bits and bobs on my LGBT store on my Shopify and I’m always looking to expand my catalogue if I see any other interesting stuff.
Thanks and keep on writing these blogs.
Wonderful stuff x
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