When It’s Not Ok To Ask…

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Kate Everall

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  1. So inappropriate – as you say, no one would ask a straight couple that question. Although, when we began fertility treatment, a colleague asked why we hadn’t just asked either of our brothers to donate sperm!

    1. Kate Everall says:

      That’s disgusting. I can’t believe how insensitive people can be. Making a baby is more than just the goods. It’s the person.

  2. Love this I have been asked this a few times
    I don’t think people get it.

    Honesty and truthful

    Great post

    1. Kate Everall says:

      Seriously? I don’t know what goes through people’s heads.

  3. Hannah Budding Smiles says:

    I simply cannot imagine why anyone would even ask that question!! When my friends were having trouble conceiving I wasn’t like “Oh, use my husband, he has good sperm” – madness. Sorry darling xx

    1. Kate Everall says:

      Exactly! You just wouldn’t say it. As if it doesn’t matter who or what you use?!

  4. Is it the word ‘just’ you inject to. If they had asked ‘Can you ask a friend?’ would that be better?

    1. Kate Everall says:

      Perhaps. I think it’s also the way that they’ve been so nonchalant about asking someone, like it’s nothing.

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